A PLACE TO
CALL HOME: THE POLITCS OF ADOPTION IN NIGERIA
CHINYERE UGWUEGBU
ABUJA, NIGERIA
(CHILDREN PLAYING AND LAUGHING)
UGWUEGBU:
It’s Thursday’s morning.
I am at the home of James Humphrey.
Fifteen year old James and his siblings are not in school today.
Their mother, Esther, is sick again.
She’s also HIV positive.
Because she’s sick, James has to stay home and take care of Esther.
At times like these, James has to play the role of mother and father.
JAMES:
Life has been so difficult. Sometimes when my mom is sick
like this, I’ll be the one to do other works at home because
there is no one to come and assist her.
UGWUEGBU:
James and his family live in Utan - about three kilometers from Jos
city.
Utan is famous for its tin deposits and beautiful landscapes.
But it is also becoming famous for its share of Orphaned and Vulnerable
Children. James Humphrey and his siblings are part of the long list
of OVCs in the city.
Like James, many children are forced to care for their sick parents
and missing school instead.
The Federal Ministry of Women Affairs estimates that there are about
six million OVCs in Nigeria.
That figure could rise dramatically in coming years.
What is needed now, are new efforts to improve care and support for
children who lose one or both parents.
For James and his siblings, that may be far-fetched.
(CHILDREN PLAYING AND LAUGHING)
Since their father died two years ago, James and his siblings have
changed home three times.
James says that is having an impact on his studies.
JAMES:
Sometimes because of that I normally don’t have time
to study my books.
UGWUEGBU:
James’ mother, Esther is getting weaker each day.
She is also poor in health.
Although she’s weak, she wants to work and take care of her five
children.
But her failing health would not allow her.
Like when she recently enrolled in a skills building class with a local
NGO.
She wanted to learn how to sow.
ESTHER:
I was just learning when I started falling sick, so I was
not able to continue going.
UGWUEGBU:
That NGO is the Mashiah foundation, based in Tudunwada.
Mashiah cares for widows and orphans whose bread-winners have died
from AIDS related complications.
The foundation recently stopped supporting Esther and her children.
Esther says help stopped because the foundation could no longer cope
with the growing number of people who need help.
So she started looking for other options.
CHILD:
I can’t afford them and really now that I’m falling
sick. I am not strong to go and work, to feed them,
to solve their problems. That is why I made the decision to adopt
them out to the white people.
Adoption, Esther says, could secure a better future for her five children.
CHILD:
I want a brighter future for my children. I don’t want
my children to end up in the streets.
Pastor Bayo Oyemade supports Esther’s decision for adoption.
Mr. Oyemade heads the Mashiah foundation.
(CHILDREN PLAYING SAYING DADDY)
He’s everyone’s “daddy” at the foundation.
PASTOR BAYO:
Nobody knows what’s going to happen to her. She is
very weak. She’s having HIV/AIDS. And she’s got two white
people from the US who want to adopt her children, but our law says
no. This lady is living with her children and the lady kept on saying
what is going to happen to my children when I die?
UGWUEGBU:
Pastor Bayo is talking of two American families who have offered to
adopt three of her children.
But the country’s Child Rights Act on adoption is blocking the
process.
The law passed three years ago, forbids child adoption beyond local
government boundaries.
Pastor Bayo says the law should be revised.
PASTOR BAYO:
What I expect Nigeria to do, is to say: Who is this person
that is coming to pick our child? Does he have a good income?
Does he have a good home? Can he take care of these children properly?
We must put that in our law - that if these children
go to the US, these children must go to school. We must say our children
must go to university level. Anybody who wants to come and pick our
children, we go okay, you are committed to sending these children
to university level.
UGWUEGBU:
Bayo has worked on child rights and child care issues for fifteen years.
He says the provision in the Act that forbids a person from adopting
children outside his local government area is not in favor of vulnerable
children.
PASTOR BAYO:
Something must be done about these children. There must be
a concrete program that will absorb them. Well, many Nigerians want
to adopt them, where are they? You see one person adopt a kid and
go to Nigerian television and say that “I’ve adopted
HIVs.” Is that the solution? No! There must be a program where
we can absorb hundreds of thousands.
(NATIONAL ASSEMBLY AMBIENCE)
UGWUEGBU:
Here at the National Assembly, Honorable Saudatu Sani and her colleagues
continue to look at the provisions in the Child Rights Act.
She chairs the house committee on Women and Children’s Affairs.
She’s also part of the committee that has been set up to review
the Act.
HONORABLE SAUDATU SANI:
If you look at adoption, the law says that you cannot adopt
a child from Abuja to Kaduna, which is just two hours drive. However
we are going to put a committee which will look at the request on
the amendment and they will look at it to the benefit of the child,
not to the detriment of the child.
UGWUEGBU:
Honorable Saudatu Sani admits the Act needs to be reformed to include
OVCs.
HONORABLE SAUDATU SANI:
As far as the children with HIV/AIDS or orphaned by HIV/AIDS
are concerned the law itself did not take care of them. That’s
why we said when laws are made these are laws made by human beings.
So there are bound to be gaps. Because of those gaps we are considering
the amendment of the Child Rights Act.
UGWUEGBU:
And until that is done children like James can do nothing but hope. |